About Me

I began my journey in 2006, attending my first kink event with curiosity and very little prior knowledge. It took me 3 months to get the courage to get out of the car and actually go inside the munch. Through those early connections—particularly friendships with experienced submissives—I began to understand myself more clearly, and through conversations and relationships helped me recognize that being a Dominant was not something that I had to work at.  It came naturally to me.

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Much of my early growth came from learning the easier way.  I knew to learn from other people's mistakes, listening when people told me who they really were, and being taught by people who understood submission deeply.  I still made plenty of my own mistakes. Those foundations shaped the way I work today: through safety, honesty, and staying centered on the experiences at hand.​

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One of the things I value most in my work is the ability to create a safe  space. I take the time to listen carefully and understand what each person is bringing with them; the good and the bad. For many, that includes a need for safety, understanding of trauma, and appreciation for mistakes made by others in our pasts. I approach each interaction with integrity, respect, and an awareness of how personal and sensitive this work can be.

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There is no one-size-fits-all approach just as there is no One True Way. Every individual is different, and I tailor my approach accordingly. Building trust and mutual respect from the very beginning is central to everything I do. This work is delicate by nature, and I believe it deserves patience, intention, and grace in order for us to work together to get your needs met.

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I also understand that curiosity often comes with hesitation. Many people feel drawn to explore aspects of themselves but are unsure  of how—or even whether—to take the first step. If you find yourself curious but uncertain, you are welcome to reach out with questions. There is no pressure, only an opportunity for conversation in a calm and respectful space.

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When you are ready, I look forward to connecting.